Tonight, I went to a meetup group for other young women in the city. I was good – I talked and made a few jokes that were well-received and asked the appropriate questions, but I didn’t laugh any belly laughs or make any real connections. I learned more about their boyfriends’ hobbies than their hobbies, and I listened to people talk about their advanced degrees for longer than anyone should have to.
I miss the Midwest.
I understand the feeling. I’m originally from NY and went to school on NC. Since coming to the Washington DC metro area, I have met some of the most superficial and pretentious people. It often leaves me standing somewhat on the outside as my conversation and commentary seems a bit “too much” or out of place for most. But I do find the area itself very interesting.